As most of you know, October is anti-bullying month is America. Bullying has become a BIG problem in our schools and on our playgrounds. Sure, bullying has been around forever, but with TV, magazines, and social media these day, things have gotten out of hand. Things were said to me while I was growing up but at the time I had "thick skin." I didn't let it bother me, never came home crying or hid in my room. Things that were said seem to bother me more now as an adult than they ever did then. Others aren't so lucky. It's more severe in a lot of cases. And in some of those cases, the children don't tell anyone. Don't go to someone for help or just to talk. Some children resort to taking their own lives, or taking other's lives, and in most cases, not the life of the bully, as in Rachel's case.
Rachel Scott wasn't a bully, in fact was just the opposite, but it didn't stop her death in the Columbine Shootings. Yesterday, my daughter and the rest of the 5th grade at McBride Elementary walked to the high school for a program about
Rachel's Challenge. "Momma I cried." she said when she got in the car yesterday afternoon. "It was so sad, kids can be so mean." I said, "I know baby, I'm sorry," in a low voice kind of holding my head down, as to not let her know that things can be bad. All the way home she told me everything about the Challenge and every video they watched and even about Rachel's brother, the one that heard the shots that took his sister's life. The school had a program for the parents at 7 o'clock last night, but I just couldn't bring myself to go. Why? You may ask. Well, I have been holding on to something that happened at our last football game on Thursday night.